If you have been experiencing scanty or sporadic sexual desires in your life, you will have to check if there is no problem with you. In a relationship, occasional lushness can create a lot of problems.

In a close and intimate relationship, both the partners need to be equally active to get total pleasure. Occasional lushness can sometimes be a problem, but it always attributed to the female partner. This is not true because it is proved that occasional lushness troubles are actually problems due to men’s anxiety and stress.

Choose the right partner

When you are going to get into a relationship with a partner, you will have to make sure that you understand that partner very well. It is not easy to ascertain the sexual behaviour of a person until you have a sexual intercourse with him or her. There are some very simple ways in which you can get to know the characteristics of the male or female partner.

Asking the right questions

A simple but effective technique is the questioning technique. You can ask a few questions to your ‘about to be’ partner and then gauge the level of excitement or anxiety he or she has. This technique is very effective when the relationship is in the nascent stages. When you ask questions keep in mind that you don’t have to ask questions like the news reporter. There are very subtle ways in which you can ask the desired questions and get the correct answers. In some cases where you find that the partner is beating around the bush, you can ask direct questions, else you can ask open ended questions to get all the information you need.

Occasional lushness has its own causes   

There are several causes for occasional lushness and pointing at only one cause may not be the right thing. The most important thing is to identify the causes and then act on them as soon as possible. Family and friends may also help you in getting rid of symptoms, but the best thing to do is to visit a psychiatrist. A psychiatrist will delve into the cause and then give you suggestions that will surely be of great help.

Occasional Lushness Troubles are male’s Defect   

It is true that occasional lushness is attributed to the male partners, but there are some instances where the female partner can contribute to such a condition. When the female partner does not respond to sexual signs, then there are problems that arise. Misunderstanding in a relationship can do a lot of harm and can culminate in a broken relationship. A voluptuous lady can surely have a great influence on the male partner, but if the perception is not right, there is no chance of sexual arousal.

Man and woman have to remain on the same platform to nurture the relationship. Occasional bouts of sexual arousal will not do any good to relationships as they will only add to the agony. This is true because both the partners need to be aroused at the same time. For example, if a male gets excited during the night and the female gets aroused during the day, there are chances that both will not be satisfied with the relationship. In such instances one of the partners has to compromise and such an arrangement leads to disagreements may culminate in fights.